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Things every Parent Should Know About Separation Anxiety

Things every Parent Should Know About Separation AnxietyKids below six years old are clingy – in a sense that they would want to stay held by their mothers or fathers all the time. When their parents are off of sight, their immediate reaction is to cry and call their parents. And this is normal. But when the child does not want to get separated from their parents excessively, it may already be considered as “separation anxiety”.

Separation anxiety is a condition wherein a child becomes fearful and nervous once they step out of their home or get separated from the individuals they are too much attached with like their parents or caregivers. This type of anxiety causes great depression to the child, and it may even result to interference of their normal day-to-day activities.

How will you know that it is already separation anxiety?

When the child acts in the listed manner, there is a high possibility that one is already experiencing separation anxiety.

  • Refusal to go to school without the caregiver beside him.
  • Fear of being alone.
  • Bed wetting the night after being sent to school.
  • Complaints of headache or stomachache on school days.
  • Recurring tantrums or pleadings.

How shall you deal with it?

There is no problem without a solution. For parents who see their children getting restless by the mere fact of their absence, especially when they are in their Daycare and Preschool provider in Forest Hills, New York, take these pieces of advice in mind and practice them.

  • Start your kids young.

    Some parents may not approve of this method because they would want to be with their infants or toddlers to witness their growth. Despite this, every parent should know that leaving their babies with caregivers or other relatives for a short period starting 7 months could lessen the possibility of separation anxiety of children.

  • Teach them to trust you.

    Your children would believe everything you tell them, and you should use this to your advantage. Make sure that you would do whatever you promise them – this will help ease the fear they often feel whenever they get separated from you. You’ll be amazed by how your words could easily change their mood.

  • Build excitement.

    Instead of letting them hear horrific stories about going somewhere else, you could build anticipation by telling good things about the place they would be going to. For example, if you are going to drop them to a daycare center, you can talk about how they would be meeting new friends and playing with these friends in the center.

  • Never skip saying “goodbye”.

    Before leaving your house, you should always inform your kids that you are going somewhere. By doing this every single day, you are preparing your toddlers to the time when it will be their turn to leave home for school.

  • Hire a consistent caregiver.

    When you need to be out of the house most of the time, you should get a person whom your child can consistently be with until they reach the age of three, four, or five.

Each parent definitely wants their child to become independent, and the training starts within the house. This training shall continue with the guidance of teachers in Baby Steps Daycare / Preschool.

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